Emotional pains last for 12 minutes

"In an article I read once, it says that all emotional pains last for 12 minutes and that anything longer is self-induced. Wow! I spent almost 3 years wallowing over Matt. I wonder now how I managed to live my life back then with such a grudge. The way I see it now, it seemed that I allowed him to live on my head without paying rent. What an awful waste of time but hey, I’m a woman and women wallow." (Excerpt, BBLOG ON)